tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post8413175232216130664..comments2023-10-02T10:03:22.943-04:00Comments on solo pronto: A ChoiceShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11451369501092111530noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-70246195057200852062011-11-18T14:27:54.970-05:002011-11-18T14:27:54.970-05:00Fertiles will never understand. Never. That's ...Fertiles will never understand. Never. That's not their fault, the just can't. Some will be more sensitive to it b/c they're our close friends or family and have seen our pain and our journeys, but at its core, infertility is something that you sadly have to experience to truly understand.Joshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13423295019681051881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-11472783569756278972011-11-15T10:52:46.697-05:002011-11-15T10:52:46.697-05:00There are some people who will never get it. I rem...There are some people who will never get it. I remember one of the hardest things for me was not being able to get pregnant right around the time that those little icons started going up that said "I make people, what is your super power?". It was innocent enough, but it was like a stab through the heart. You will get to the other side of this. It will feel surreal and you will still remember how raw and horrible it was to battle through this, but I know it will happen for you. You will be a mother and you'll be the best mom.Nhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17901543622174716512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-78287820200952093052011-11-11T20:07:40.024-05:002011-11-11T20:07:40.024-05:00Oh goodness! These hurtful comments suck but I lov...Oh goodness! These hurtful comments suck but I love the post you got out of it lol<br /><br />I really think you dealt with it calmly and with a nice head help up high. It is a choice I guess but like you said its the same one would do to treat any other illness or condition. Yes, we can go about our lives and not spend a dime on these treatments but at the end of the day we didn't choose to be infertiles we choose to fight it. You said it best! good for you for educating her!Shannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00905344569039384899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-11200632322488317722011-11-10T19:28:42.759-05:002011-11-10T19:28:42.759-05:00You handled it beautifully and the best part is th...You handled it beautifully and the best part is that hopefully that one person will be more conscious of her comments in the future.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-12853465378607064872011-11-10T11:30:05.894-05:002011-11-10T11:30:05.894-05:00You handled it well. Unfortunately, I don't th...You handled it well. Unfortunately, I don't think people like her will ever understand what it's like unless they have to go through it too, and no one wishes that upon anyone.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08341201834310837967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-15227037740082974852011-11-09T23:28:33.156-05:002011-11-09T23:28:33.156-05:00this really is a great post. i'm so impressed ...this really is a great post. i'm so impressed by your calm response to her. i doubt i would have handled the situation half as well.<br /><br />by the way, thanks for stopping by my blog! i'll definitely be following you on your journey. good luck! hugs!Carliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06869662113993914883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8478483218646118978.post-56375626108353777882011-11-09T20:57:29.991-05:002011-11-09T20:57:29.991-05:00Great post. And I'm so sorry you had to deal w...Great post. And I'm so sorry you had to deal with that comment. What you said in return is right on though! And actually my husband and I HAVE gone without food during some fertility treatments, well not starving or anything. But there have been plenty of times we had to cut corners or eat boxed mac and cheese a few times a week to get by!!! We've given up vacations and doing fun date night things all in our quest to pay for these treatments! We are still paying off our IVF each month, $200 a month that we could be doing some fun with! But we are not complaining because we are finally on our way to meeting our miracle! Ugh. It really bothers me when people make comments like that.I used to just let them roll off my back but now I fire back and purposely make them feel like shit :)Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10364801556842061320noreply@blogger.com